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Is That All There Is to Sex? – How Fetish Sex Toys Destroy Clichés

ByAnthony Hendriks

Jun 21, 2016

People like sex. That’s actually and understatement. People really, really, love sex. Almost everything we do revolves around sex. It is the driving force of humanity. You are born, you are horny, and then you die. So why not make the most out of your sex life.

You think sex is great, you think it is the most awesome thing in the world, you think you have such an exciting sex life. I don’t mean to burst your bubble, but it can always get better. And even better after that. Remember the first time you moved from missionary to doggy style and felt like a dirty, sexy, porn star? Well, when it comes to sex, there is a whole new world to explore. And I’m really sorry to ruin your favourite childhood Disney cartoon. Yea, now you have the image of Aladdin and Jasmine getting it on stuck in your head. Anyway, most people don’t even bother to leave their comfort zone and explore. If you do a little experimenting, you may find things that arouse you which are not normally arousing to other people and that’s completely normal. It is called a fetish.


Although fetishes may include anything from watching a girl pick her nose to wearing dirty panties on your head, the most common fetishes involve feet, bondage, spanking, role play, stimulating certain body parts, and latex, lots and lots of latex.

When you and your partner decide to dive into the world of fetishes, you might want to do a little homework to get your freak on. Watching some porn movies, including anime porn, and browsing through all the different fetish sex toys can be of great help. The Internet is an unlimited source of porn so I don’t think you will have any trouble in that particular area. However, fetish sex toys can be kinda confusing at first which is why I have made a list of some of the most popular ones and the way they are used.

  • Hand cuffs are a classic fetish sex toy. You have seen it in movies many times and and chances are you already own a pair. But, if you don’t you should definitely get them. Most of them are lined with soft leather or fake fur and will keep your partner comfortably constrained while also looking sexy.
  • If you want to turn it up a notch, you can get a full bondage kit for beginners which includes handcuffs, a neck collar, gag ball, blindfold, ropes and so on. This is the perfect kit if you are into dominating or being dominated.
  • If you like your pleasure spiced with pain than you might want to try some of the many different paddles, whips, nipple clamps, even toys with electric stimulation.
  • Maybe you have difficulties with sexual positions that are too hard to perform or cause you discomfort. Well, a sex swing is the thing for you. They are easy to install and will let you discover a wide rage of different positions you never knew existed and experience levels of penetration that will make your head spin.
  • One of the toys that is a favourite to both beginners and advanced players is the butt plug that may feature a furry tail for extra kink. It provides both visual and sexual stimulation and will sure unleash the animal in you or your partner.
  • As I mentioned before latex is one sexy material. Whether you get just a mask or a whole suit a soon as you put it on you will feel like a sex god. It may feature bondage elements and holes in all the right places.

These toys are just the tip of the fetish iceberg. Feel free to explore your deepest fantasies and always consult your partner maybe over a few drinks before you go any further. And of course, never forget your safeword. My safeword is “harder”.

By Anthony Hendriks

The life of the party, Anthony is always up for spending some time with family and friends, when not blogging of course! Ever since a child, his love for books of mystery, race cars and travelling keeps on growing so it's difficult for him to single out that one all-time favourite hobby. If there's one thing he hates, though, it's having pictures taken but you already guessed that from his choice of plant photo for the blog.