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From Mild to Wild: 5 Effective Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life

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Having a healthy sex life is an important part of any relationship. However, it’s normal to have periods where the intensity and interest are decreased, especially in long-term, committed relationships. There are many reasons why that happens, you’re tired, too many work responsibilities and so on. When things like that happen, it doesn’t mean that you’re not attracted to your partner or the other way around, it just means that you need to find new and exciting ways to get the party started. 

How Can You Make Your Sex Life More Interesting?

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Spicing up things in the bedroom can be fun and exciting, as long as both parties agree on the same thing and you both enjoy it. That being said, there are many things you can do to make things more stimulating and thrilling, but if you need more inspiration, look no further. Here are some things you can do to turn the “blah” into an “ah”.

Sex Toy Sets

Sex toys can sometimes be a sensitive topic as not everyone enjoys them. So, having a conversation with your partner is a must, to see how they would react and if they feel comfortable using them. But, if you decide to introduce a playful and user-friendly sex toy kit into your love life, it can open up entirely new realms of pleasure for everyone involved. Toys do things that our bodies simply cannot, such as vibrate and these sensations can help people have a more consistent and sometimes intense orgasmic experience.

While some sex toys are designed for solo play, there’s a myriad of toys that are created with couples in mind, made for couples to optimise pleasure together.  One way to get the party started is to go shopping together. That way you can discuss what you like and also build up anticipation.

Dildos and vibrators are the first things that pop into mind when talking about toys and they are a great way to start bringing in toys into the bedroom. There are different kinds that you can use to penetrate one another, either vaginally or annaly and plenty of vibrators are dildos or blugs, and vice versa, so you get multiple toys in one. If you prefer something more exciting, you can try bondage kits and blindfolds, which enhance the sensations by blocking one of the most important senses, sight. 

There are many options and the selection can sometimes be overwhelming, but you don’t need to rush. Take your time and explore your options together, review the toys and when you do buy them explore different ways of using them. The most important thing is for you and your partner to have fun together and enjoy this experience by stimulating each other and having fun while doing so. 

Get a Hotel Room 

Staying at the same place all the time can become boring, so finding new places to have fun might change that. If you’re too scared to do it somewhere public, getting a hotel room is going to switch things up. It’s gonna feel like a small vacation where you can relax and have all the fun you want. 


If you’ve known your significant other for a while, roleplay can be a great way to spice things up. Go on a dinner date and pretend you’re meeting for the first time. Put on an outfit that makes you feel confident and at the end of the night pretend like you’re sleeping together for the first time and getting to know each other’s liking for the first time.

Discuss Fantasies 

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Fantasies can provide a source of creative ideas to enhance your sex life. Explore both your and your partner’s fantasies and make a list of those you want to try and those that are a maybe and revisit them later. By doing this not only are you finding new ways to pleasure each other but you also learn something more about your partner. 

Create the Right Atmosphere 

Creating a relaxed atmosphere is critical to having a great intimate life. The more comfortable you and your partner are, the easier it will be to have a good time. Dim the lights or light some candles to add to the atmosphere as well as play some music to enhance the relaxed feeling. Making a little bit of effort makes it more likely to have sex more often. 

Benefits of a Fun Sex Life

Having a fun sex life is great for your relationship, because not only are you keeping things fun and interesting, but you’re also learning new things about your partner which can sometimes be hard if you’re in a long-term relationship. You’re also gonna feel better and happier because being intimate releases endorphins making you less depressed and anxious. 

Having a fun and healthy sex life depends both on you and your partner and finding new ways to spice things up should be a mutual decision. Different things work for different people and working together to discover what works for you is only gonna help both of you more and you’re gonna enjoy and have fun together.

By Anthony Hendriks

The life of the party, Anthony is always up for spending some time with family and friends, when not blogging of course! Ever since a child, his love for books of mystery, race cars and travelling keeps on growing so it's difficult for him to single out that one all-time favourite hobby. If there's one thing he hates, though, it's having pictures taken but you already guessed that from his choice of plant photo for the blog.